How To Find Your Tribe

Finding your tribe — that group of people who understand and support you — isn’t always the easiest thing to do. We live in a fast-paced world where we spend more time communicating digitally than face to face. We have career obligations, family responsibilities and personal commitments that don’t leave much time for socializing and often leave us feeling disconnected with each other. That is why finding your tribe is so important. The journey takes self understanding, patience and reflection.

How to find your tribe

The word “tribe” refers to a group of people with a common ancestry or culture. Today, we think of our tribe as a group of people who share our values, interests and goals. Your tribe is more than just a group of friends. Your tribe should give you a sense of belonging and support you. They should challenge you and inspire you. They are those people who share in your passions and in your dreams. If you are ready to find your tribe, keep reading for some helpful tips on your journey.

It starts with you

The first thing you need to do when searching for your tribe is to get a clear understanding of yourself. What are your interests and passions? What are your values? Knowing these things about yourself will help you find like-minded individuals who want to join you on your journey.

If you are unsure about yourself, you can begin by journaling. Writing about your interests, what you like and dislike, your life experiences and how you feel about them will begin to give you some insight into yourself. Meditation is another great way to gain clarity about your goals and desires. You may also consider tools such as personality tests. The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator or the Enneagram can offer insights into your preferences and personality type.

Start looking

Once you have a better sense of yourself, it’s time to start looking for your tribe! You can start by attending local events such as workshops and seminars that interest you. Check out any social gatherings that might be happening at community centers, libraries or colleges. Volunteer for a cause that you are passionate about. Volunteering not only allows you to do something you love but it also helps you connect with others who share your same vision. And, of course, you can always research online platforms like Meetup and Facebook where you can participate in discussions and connect with members.

Dive in

Finding your tribe is more than just joining a group, however. You will need to actively participate to build relationships. The key to building meaningful connections lies in your ability to be genuine. Share your true self and be open to listening to others as well. Offer support, lend a hand and celebrate those in your group. And, when it comes to attending events don’t be afraid to take the initiative and organize a get together or project yourself.

Be patient

Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “It’s not the destination, it’s the journey.” This is true when searching for your tribe. It takes time to find the right fit. You may need to attend many different events and explore several communities before you find the one that feels right to you. That’s okay. Just be patient and persistent. Understand that building deep, meaningful relationships takes time and effort. Be willing to grow alongside the people you meet. Keep an open mind and remember to consider people who share your common values and goals but might have different backgrounds and opinions. It is good to find people who challenge us to be our best.

Reflect

As you grow and evolve, your needs and interests may change, and so might your tribe. Remember to reflect on your relationships and assess how they are working. Do they continue to meet your emotional and social needs? It’s natural for people to shift and change over time and it’s okay to seek new connections as time goes by.

Embrace the journey 

Finding your tribe is a journey that can deeply enrich your life. When you understand yourself and begin to explore new, genuine relationships, you will be on your way to finding a group of people who truly support and understand you. Remember, your tribe is not just a group of people; it is a community that reflects your values, aspirations and dreams. We are all on this path together, embrace the journey!

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